Hey Sistahs,
I've been thinking alot lately about how hard it is for us to let go of the bastards that make our lives a livin' fire-breathin' hell. It's really not our fault, we're emotional creatures, that's how we're built. But there comes a time when you've got to stop hittin' your head against a brick wall, save yourself some brain cells and just let the niggah go! I know it's hard and you don't want to let go of something you've invested so much time and love on. But sometimes, it's just not worth it.
There's a sistah I know who wasted ten years of her life on a niggah, she did everything for him, gave up her time with her friends to be with him, cooked and cleaned for him, did some kinky stuff in the boudoir for him. But he still cheated on her, dumped her and married his ex in three months. Damn! That's time she'll never get back, time she wasted when she shoulda been bonding with her galfriends and family, accomplishing her career goals or even planning a trip to see the Dalai Lama! So sistahs... dump the niggah and repeat after me...
If he doesn't treat me right, the niggah's gotta go!
If he cheats on me, the niggah's gotta go!
If he's beating on me, the niggah's gotta go!
If he's playing with my emotions, the niggah's gotta go!
We're beautiful and strong and we deserve someone who doesn't subtract our amazing qualities but adds to them. LET HIM GO! Yes... there's a better man out there for you but you've got to love yourself enough to let the bastard go so you can find the prince. Trust me, that frog you've been kissin' for eight years won't turn into a prince anytime soon! Kick the niggah out! You owe it to yourself to be happy.
FeistySistah.
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Go let him go!
ReplyDeletethanks njeri for your support! we sistahs need to stick together and help each other up!
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Hey Sistahs!
ReplyDeletewhoa! been away for so long! yeah...my ass was broke but i'm back! i promise to keep things short and sweet! got a tendency to ramble on and on and on like a senile old lady with nostalgic stories she's just gotta tell!
so...I've been thinking how we sistahs always give up our power to the men we meet just so we can keep them. hey, we've all done it. we leave it up to him to treat us any way he wants. and.. as is human nature, he'll abuse it. sistahs, we're the ones in control! we're in charge! we control how a guy treats us from day one! if you love and respect yourself and show the man you're with that he better treat you like a friggin princess or else his ass is grass...that's exactly how he'll treat you! trust me sistahs, i learnt this the hard way! how powerful does that make you feel? use the power for good and not for evil!